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Kani Ilangovan

Dr. Kani Ilangovan is a child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist, mother, writer and activist. She is a board member of The E Pluribus Unum Project and works for pluralistic curriculum advocacy.

Dr. Kani's Take: An invitation for NJ Desis to participate in anti-racism efforts

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Aug 4, 2026

Dr. Kani's Take: An invitation for NJ Desis to participate in anti-racism efforts

A new group is bridging generations, confronting anti-Blackness, and honoring the civil rights history that opened doors for South Asian Americans.

Kani Ilangovan
Sindhu Xirasagar
Kani Ilangovan, +1
Dr. Kani's Take: Why are my kids not talking to me anymore?

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Mar 31, 2026

Dr. Kani's Take: Why are my kids not talking to me anymore?

For Desi parents facing a rift with their children, understanding common themes of control and criticism is the first step toward healing.

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan
Dr. Kani's Take: As a Desi woman, why I travel for myself

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Sep 16, 2025

Dr. Kani's Take: As a Desi woman, why I travel for myself

A recent trip to the Amazon prompts the writer to reflect on the importance of prioritizing oneself.

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan
Dr. Kani's Take: Let's support our Desi LGBTQ youth

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Jun 3, 2025

Dr. Kani's Take: Let's support our Desi LGBTQ youth

Family and community support are key to ensuring our young people stay safe.

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan
Dr. Kani's Take: Self-care during turmoil

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Mar 18, 2025

Dr. Kani's Take: Self-care during turmoil

How to care for yourself in turbulent times: Practical strategies for staying grounded amid political chaos

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan
Dr. Kani’s Take: A guide to Desi mental health

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Feb 11, 2025

Dr. Kani’s Take: A guide to Desi mental health

How to access therapy and address the common issues facing our community.

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan
Dr. Kani’s Take: The taboo of marrying outside the culture

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Jan 7, 2025

Dr. Kani’s Take: The taboo of marrying outside the culture

Desi patients come to me in shock over the upheaval that comes with cross-cultural marriages.

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan
Dr. Kani’s Take: Introducing our new column

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Nov 26, 2024

Dr. Kani’s Take: Introducing our new column

I grew up feeling safe with South Asian Americans. I hope I can relearn that.

Kani Ilangovan
Kani Ilangovan

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